Your child’s First Holy Communion should be a happy day for the whole family.  Not one that brings fear and dread. Big celebrations does not necessarily mean spending lots of money.  I read an article in the Irish Independent some time ago that Church leaders will be introducing new measures to prevent the unnecessary expenditure.

During these days of government austerity measures and cut backs, isn’t it about time that we learned to do the same.   It can cost an average of €1000 per family which is spent on dresses, suits, shoes, parasols, tiaras and catering for the party afterwards, all of which are deemed essential for the perfect day.  Have all trimmings but on a tighter budget.  Plan for the expense in advance by including it in your household budget ahead of time.

Set a realistic budget for the outfit and stick to it. These dresses will be worn for one day, possibly two, so think value for money.  Consider checking charity shops that now carry a great range of outfits.  Remember, they have only been worn once or twice before and you will be doing the charity a huge favour as well as your pocket.

Save money and host the party in your own home.   Friends and family will be delighted to lend a hand.  Get someone to do starters, someone else to bring salads and sides and someone else to do desserts, leaving you with mains.  Limit decorations to a couple of bouquets of flowers or balloons.  Tea light candles in old jam jars that have been decorated with white bows dotted around the garden walls can be very effective when the evening draws to a close.  The day will still be as enjoyable for all concerned but without the stress of the debt that might have developed.